2. Sling scarf and sling with rings

The most optimal is considered to be woven and. They allow from infancy to carry a child both vertically and horizontally, providing his body with the correct and complete support due to the possibility of careful and very precise adjustment of the fabric.

The best fabrics are "sling" fabrics double diagonal and jacquard weave. They do not stretch either along or across, but stretch slightly diagonally, thereby providing the necessary support and even distribution of the load. Moreover, they are made from natural fibers and specifically for wearing by children.

Sling with rings it is also advisable to use it from the “correct” scarf fabric, since materials that are not suitable for wearing by children (for example, calico or chintz) are less comfortable to wear and more difficult to adjust.

Another feature of the SSC is the load on only one shoulder of an adult, so the position should be alternated, which is also important for a child. From this point of view, the sling scarf is more versatile.

It is recommended to carry the baby in an upright position with the legs outward from birth (see illustration in the demonstration sling). Babies are also sometimes worn in knitted scarves, but it is unlikely that easily stretching fabric can provide the necessary support to the child's spine, and already with a child's weight of 6-7 kilograms, they create an uneven load on the mother's back, pulling under a heavier burden.

3. May-sling

If you are closer, then it is better to purchase it from scarf fabric (scarf). Such a carrier will be more plastic and better suited for children's physiology. However, not any may-sling is able to provide the necessary support to the back and neck of the baby. Various tourniquets and knots on the back of the baby are also undesirable, as they create a point load on the spine.

It is possible to wear in the “cradle” position in a May-sling, but it is not very convenient due to the peculiarities of its design, there is a danger of warping the baby along the spine due to the excess tissue that remains when the child is laid in a horizontal position.

Please note that in order to use the May Sling from birth, it is necessary that the base of the back is adjustable in width! May-sling can be used without adjustment only from 3-4 months.

4. Physiological backpack (sling backpack)

Backpack-type carriers are not all the same, the most important sign of an ergonomic backpack is the breeding of the baby's legs with the letter "M". The child does not hang, suspended by the armpits (as in a kangaroo), the legs do not sag (forming the letter "P"), but wrap around the mother and form the letter "M".

4.1 Traditional carriers

For a long time, there were only backpacks on the market that were only suitable for use from the moment the child was sitting confidently, such as Ergobaby, Manduca and others. In such models, it is not possible to change the size and shape of the back of the carrier. For newborns, they have an insert-mattress, which, although it allows the child to be positioned correctly, creates excessive volume, because in thickness it is comparable to a flannelette blanket. Both mother and baby can be very hot.

It is IMPOSSIBLE to wear vertically in such backpacks from birth, as it cannot be adjusted as carefully as a woven sling. The backpack is regulated only by straps sewn into the back, but such an adjustment will attract the child to an adult only in the middle of the back, but will not provide support for the upper and cervical spine. But for an older child, such a carrier is quite suitable.

4.2 Hybrid carriers

In the last 2-3 years, many so-called "hybrid ergo backpacks" have appeared on the market, in which the back is flexibly adjustable - its width, height changes, with the help of adjustments, a better fit of the backrest is ensured and, accordingly, the physiological position of the child is ensured. However, it should be borne in mind that such carriers are not suitable for small, premature babies, the minimum weight of the child must be at least 3 kg.

Width can be fixed with a wide velcro (like Diva Milano), back flaps fixed with velcro (Ergobaby Adapt), flaps with buttons (Ergobaby OMNI 360), woven belt loops (Manduca XT).

so that at any age the correct M-position of the child's legs is ensured:

Separately, we mention that the Babybjorn backpack with adjustable back width is not an ergonomic carrier. Although the width varies, its maximum wide position is still too narrow for the child and does not provide the correct M-position of the legs.

5. Dysplasia

Another important feature of newborns is immature hip joint. In case of violation of its development (dysplasia), excessively elastic ligaments are not able to hold the head of the femoral joint in the required position, and it shifts to the edge of the acetabulum (this condition is called "subluxation"), and in a more severe form of dysplasia, the femur generally leaves the acetabulum (this is already a "dislocation of the hip").

For the treatment of dysplasia, orthopedists use various devices that hold children's legs. divorced and at a certain angle. In this case, the head of the joint "resets" into place. In children 2-3 months old, if dysplasia is suspected, preventive, softer means (wide swaddling, Frejka pillow), gymnastics and massage are used.

Wearing in a sling with legs apart performs the same preventive function, even if you carry the child with the legs inward, in the “frog” position, this effect persists, it is only important to take into account that the baby’s knees should be higher than his priests. This must be remembered when wearing the legs outward, because this is how the main load will fall not on the hip joint, but on the popliteal region of the baby.

Wearing in "kangaroos" on the contrary can cause this disease. , even in the absence of congenital prerequisites. Judge for yourself, the bones and joints of a newborn (including the hip) are still very flexible, cartilaginous. When wearing it in a “column” without proper support for the spine and far from being in the fetal position, where the baby’s legs just dangle, and he himself hangs on the perineum, the load falls just on the immature lower spine, which can lead to serious consequences in the future, for example, flattening of the intervertebral space.

It is important to understand that an ergo backpack that does not involve adjusting the base in width is not able to fully support the baby in a physiological position. The legs of a newborn child should not be bred at an angle of more than 60-70 degrees, and by 1-1.5 months - 90.

With slings, everything is easier: soft fabric allows you to adjust the backrest individually.

REMEMBER: the sling adjusts itself to your child, and the backpack forces the child to adapt to itself. The sling is soft and plastic, you can mold anything from it, and the backpack already has its own strict shape, into which the child may or may not fit.

6. Duration of wearing

Before choosing a particular sling, ask yourself how long and how often you plan to use it.

If the sling is needed FOR SHORT-TERM WEAR, then it suits you better. It is easy to put on, it is not difficult to put a sleeping baby out of it. However, there remains a minus with an uneven load on one shoulder.

If you like to WALK LONG, you like to be mobile, travel long distances, or your child does not get off your arms, then two-shoulder carrying is more suitable: a sling-scarf, a May-sling or an ergo-backpack.

In recent years, slings for newborns have been increasingly included in the daily life of new mothers. You can buy a carrier in the nearest children's store or order online. When choosing a system, it is necessary to take into account the individual parameters of the child, the needs and desires of the mother. With the help of simple tips, each mom will be able to choose a convenient and comfortable carrier for her baby.

Types of baby carriers

The modern market for products for newborns is replete with all kinds of cradles, slings, carriers, cradles. All of them differ in the technique of use, age group and requirements. When choosing a suitable device, the following conditions must be considered:

• the age of the child and the ability to be in a sitting position;
• the weight of the baby and its compliance with the permissible carrying parameters;
• conditions in which the device will be used (season, street or house, weather);
• the need to organize breastfeeding when using a sling-backpack;
• desired way of wearing (horizontal, vertical, front, back).

The most popular transfer options are:

• Sling jacket. Carrying is ideal for the cool season. A regular jacket has an insert-pocket in which the child is carried. In most models, it can be unfastened when not needed.
• Sling with rings. A sling for a child involves wearing in two positions. In this case, the device always passes through the mother's shoulder. There are no other options for wrapping a sling with rings.
  
• Sling scarf. A sling scarf for newborns is a piece of fabric with which the baby is attached to the mother's torso. Depending on how you tie the sling, you can use different positioning techniques for your baby.
  
• May sling. The device is a textile insert with two straps. In an upright position, it is recommended to carry a baby in a sling from 6 months. Until this age, the priority is the horizontal position.
  
• Ergo backpack. Carrying in the form of an ergonomic backpack does not require winding, unlike a sling. The device has a frame and evenly distributes the load on the back of the mother. When choosing what to buy - an ergo backpack or a sling, you need to rely on the age of the child. Such a carrier is recommended for use no earlier than 4 months.
  
• Kangaroo. Carrying is recommended for use from 6 months. Kangaroo is a frame device that creates a considerable load on the back and hip area of ​​the baby. A child in such a system should already sit confidently.
  
• For twins. The carrier resembles a sling for newborns and can be used from 0 months. However, carrying two children in a horizontal position is not very convenient. A twin sling is a textile device that wraps around the mother's shoulders and waist. Twins can be positioned on the sides or front and back.

Popular slings

After analyzing the information about carriers and their subspecies, we can conclude that slings are a convenient and safe option. To choose and buy the right one, you should learn about the pros and cons, as well as the features of the use of each device.

Ring sling

A good scarf-shaped sling is made of high quality textiles and has two fixing rings on one side. It is necessary that they be made of durable material that will not be damaged under the growing weight of the baby's body.

Children can be placed in such a device horizontally and in a sitting position. Sometimes women practice wearing on their backs, but this is considered unsafe. The instructions for winding the flap are extremely simple. You can find it on the packaging or watch a video on the Internet. It is allowed to use slings on rings from birth.

The disadvantage of such carrying is the uneven load on the back of the mother. However, you can always change the shoulder on which the rings are located. Carrying is considered useful for the child, as the baby is constantly in contact with his mother. Having placed the baby in a horizontal position, a woman can easily breastfeed him.

The sling scarf is tied, securely fixing the free side of the flap in the rings. It is important to choose the correct height for the position of the child. Popular manufacturers of such carriers are: MUMS ERA, Selby, 40 weeks.

Sling scarf

The number of options for winding the sling depends on the length of the flap. Carrying is called a scarf because it visually resembles a large stole. When choosing a device, you should give preference to products made of high-strength hypoallergenic material that can be washed.

The location of the baby in the sling-scarf can be horizontal, vertical, front, side, back. A lot of options are offered in videos that can be found on the Internet. Popular options are the M-shaped winding and the location on the thigh. It is allowed to use a sling scarf from the first day of a baby's life. The physiological position in the fetal position allows the newborn to feel comfortable, and the mother to always remain mobile.

The disadvantage of carrying is the difficulty of tying. Long scarf tails can get in the way and drag across the floor. To learn the techniques of putting on a sling well, a new mother will have to repeat them more than once.

Popular companies of this type of carriers are: VOVA, Kengurusha, Ellevill.

May sling

May-sling is a dense piece of textile dense, from which two strong straps extend. The main requirements when choosing are: reliability, strength, safety.

You can only place your baby in a May-sling vertically - on the hip, back or facing the mother. Winding the device is easy. The dense part of the carrier is located on the back of the child. The straps are thrown over the shoulders of the parent, after which they go under the baby's pelvis and are fixed on the mother's lower back.

The negative features of the May-sling are the difficulty in winding and the possibility of using it no earlier than 4 months. The carrier is suitable only for those babies who can already hold their heads on their own.

Popular manufacturers of May-slings are: AMAMA, Miracle child, DIVA MILANO.

Price category

The cost of slings in online stores sometimes scares expectant and newly-made mothers. When choosing a device for carrying a baby, you should not save money, however, it is pointless to chase expensive brands. Domestic slings are considered inexpensive: Kengurusha, AMAMA, Chudo-Chado, 40 weeks, Sling Me, Little People, the price of which starts from 1500 rubles. Foreign manufacturers: MUMS ERA, Filt, Ergo Baby, Walla Boo set a lower cost threshold of 3,000 rubles.

DIY sling

You can make a sling with your own hands. Even during pregnancy, a woman can make a carrier and test it on a doll. It is worth noting that the price of such a device may be an order of magnitude more expensive than the market.

Also, new mothers sometimes use sheet slings. The well-known pediatrician Komarovsky agrees with his colleagues that such a practice can be dangerous. The doctor advises using slings that eliminate the load on the spine and allow the baby's body to take the fetal position.

A do-it-yourself sling made of a dense piece of fabric can be used for babies from 6 months old who are already sitting. To fix the child, a cross-shaped tying of corners is performed on the back and lower back of the parent.

Rating of carriers at the end of 2018

An analysis of feedback on slings and a study of the quality of market products allows us to form a rating of carrier leaders based on the results of the past year.

When choosing a sling for a newborn, you can choose a wide variety of options for every wallet, taste and color. It is important to give preference to manufacturers who have proven themselves on the good side. If you have questions, it is recommended to consult a practicing pediatrician and a neurologist.

Slings have long been known to mankind as a means of carrying babies and small children up to 2 years old. The first of them appeared 50 thousand years ago. Infants and older children can be carried in this way. But you need to do this with the help of a specially selected sling. About which slings are best for newborns, how to wind them and how to choose, you can read in this article.

Stroller alternative

The word "sling", which in translation means "sling", appeared many centuries ago. Its origin was determined by domestic needs, because humanity has always had to deal with the economy, the extraction of food. This often had to be done simultaneously with the upbringing of several children. While they were small, it was most convenient to carry them on yourself. Climatic conditions played a significant role in the emergence of special "windings". In hot climates, babies were more likely to need their mother's milk, as the death rate from dehydration was very high. Therefore, mothers often took them with them, working with them.

The first slings appeared about 50 thousand years ago. After long centuries of wearing baby carriers in the 19th century, due to a change in the model of education, they began to be gradually replaced by strollers. At that time, it was considered a sign of care, because parents tried to raise their offspring at a distance in order to prepare them for adulthood. Around the same time, the fashion for separate bedrooms and cribs for children came.

But the period of "separation" was short-lived. Already at the end of the 20th century, studies began to appear that showed that in children from African and Indian tribes, who were carried by their mothers, the level of development in the first year significantly exceeds the same indicators for European children. Feeling the warmth and beating of the mother’s heart, being with her in her usual rhythm of life and seeing everything that she sees, children develop much faster, because they feel safe. And humanity returned to the old and proven way of raising babies, in which mothers could do household chores with their children. Now many doctors and psychologists are talking about the psychological benefits of slings for newborns from 0 years old. Close contact with the mother helps the baby to quickly develop his hormones, biorhythms, calms and accelerates mental and emotional development.

Types of slings

There are many options for carrying babies. But only some of them are worth considering, because not all slings have a positive effect on the health of the baby. There are those who cause him irreparable harm. Below we will consider only those carriers that are approved by doctors:

• Sling scarf for newborns is one of the most popular. It is simply a piece of fabric that looks like a scarf. The fabric should be quite dense and at the same time stretch well.
• The ring sling is very easy to use. This is a strip of fabric, the ends of which are connected with a ring. The child is placed in such a sling, as in a cradle. It is convenient to carry very small children in a scarf with rings.
• My sling is a rectangular piece of fabric with straps. The baby in such a “pocket” is located very physiologically.
• A fast sling is a cross between a May sling and a backpack. In shape, it is completely similar to its predecessor, but fastened with convenient fasteners. Thanks to this, it can be easily put on and taken off, it is ideal for the road.
• Sling backpack. Unlike not very useful "kangaroo", this device fully meets all the requirements of doctors. The sling-backpack made of dense fabric is convenient both for the child, and for mum.
• A hipseat is a seat for a child that is attached to the mother's belt. Hipseats are designed for older children who can sit up on their own.

Slings for newborns

Which sling is best for a newborn among all this variety? When choosing such a carrier, it is best to focus on the simplest models that are made from natural fabrics. An important factor is the ease of winding, because often young mothers first encounter slings with the birth of a child and are discouraged by the complexity of winding. Here are some slings for newborns from 0 years old can be distinguished:

1. The ring sling is known as one of the best knitted baby slings. A comfortable position turns a piece of fabric into a real "hammock" for the baby. In such a device, the child will lie comfortably. Even an inexperienced slingomam can put it on, because it is attached elementarily: you just have to pass the ends of the scarf through the rings. The baby carrier is easy to adjust in height. Putting it on takes only a couple of minutes. In addition, the ring sling is suitable for summer and hot weather, as well as for travel, as it is easy to use and is made from lightweight fabric in one layer. If you have returned from a walk and decided to transfer the baby to the crib, it will be very simple to do this: you just need to loosen the ends of the scarf and “emerge” from it.
2. A sling scarf for a newborn is the most versatile and comfortable means of transportation. With it, you can carry your baby both vertically and horizontally. It is more convenient to carry babies in front, and already grown up kids - behind. The scarf is universal and suitable for a child from birth to 3 years. Sling scarves are made from different fabrics, different densities and lengths. Lighter ones - cotton or linen are well suited for hot summer weather. For winter, thick woolen scarves are sewn. The standard length of such a carrier is at least 3 meters - this length is enough only for the simplest windings.

Slings for older children

1. May sling. Outwardly, it resembles a backpack, but it is much more physiological. The baby is attached to the mother with the help of a rectangular piece of fabric, the bottom and top of which are straps - wide pieces of fabric. The lower ones are attached to the mother's belt, and the upper ones pass through the shoulders and are tied up on the back of the child. In this position, the baby is in the fetal position - the legs are raised higher than the buttocks. Since the baby can only be positioned horizontally in a May Sling, doctors do not recommend it for newborns. It is best to carry the baby in this way starting from 4 months, when he begins to confidently hold his head, and the back gets a little stronger.
2. An ergo backpack, or sling backpack, is the most comfortable and easy to use option. You can carry your baby in an ergo backpack either on your back or on your stomach facing you. Wide and dense straps evenly distribute the load on the shoulders and back of the mother. The padded waistband makes this sling even more comfortable to wear. A child in an ergo-backpack is located in the same physiological way as in a May-sling. But doctors recommend it for older children: from 6 months to 3 years. It is convenient to take a sling backpack with you on trips and travels: the straps can be quickly unfastened with the help of fasteners, and pockets for documents are often made in the sling belt.

What is the best sling for a newborn?

The choice of carrier is a very individual process, which largely depends on the needs of mother and baby. Opinions about which sling is best for a newborn always differ. Some people like scarves for their versatility, others prefer the simplicity and conciseness of ring slings. To understand which sling to choose for a newborn, you need to consider all the pros and cons of each option:

• A ring sling is easy to use, but less capable than, say, a sling scarf. In it, the baby can only be in a horizontal position in front of the mother. You can only adjust the height of its position. Otherwise, the sling is very convenient: it is practical, it can be put on easily and quickly. You need to choose such a product carefully and pay attention to the rings: they must be large enough (more than 10 cm). But the main disadvantage of a scarf with rings is the uneven distribution of the load on the back and shoulders of mom or dad. Therefore, such a carrying is only suitable for short-term wear.
• A sling scarf allows for many more wrapping options. It can carry your baby in almost any position. In addition, the scarf is usually worn in several layers, which means it provides more reliable support for the baby. The disadvantages of this device are the complexity of the windings. Most often, it is not easy for a novice mother to learn the methods of winding a scarf, of which there are a huge variety. Numerous video tutorials can help a little, but it still takes practice to confidently wind a sling for a newborn. In addition, it is quite difficult to put on a scarf in the field: on the street or in a store. In hot weather, a sling scarf is completely impractical: due to several layers, the child will most likely be hot and uncomfortable.

How to choose?

If you have decided on a sling model, you are most likely worried about the following question: how to choose it? When buying, it is important to focus on certain criteria that will help you purchase a quality product:

• When choosing a cradle sling for a newborn, it is best to choose a thin and dense fabric made from natural materials. Such a sling will not stretch too much, supporting the baby's body, but at the same time it will "breathe" and let air through. Ideally for the first sling, fabrics such as coarse calico, waffle fabric are suitable.
• When choosing a sling scarf, you need to choose a well-stretching fabric. It should stretch both diagonally and transversely.
• When choosing a May-sling or ergo-backpack, the requirements are completely different: the material should be as dense as possible, but at the same time natural. Particular attention should be paid to the width of the straps: the narrower they are, the higher the load on the mother's back. In addition, narrow straps can cut into the child's legs.
• The correct size of the scarf is also important. For mom size 42-44, a 4.5 meter long sling is suitable. For the 44-48th, the ideal scarf length will be 5 meters. And for parents from the 50th size, you need to take about 5.5-meter sling. The correct size will avoid problems of lack of fabric or excess, hanging ends of the carrier.
• As a rule, the higher the price of a sling, the better the quality. Therefore, find a place in the budget in advance for the purchase of a sling and proceed from the maximum possible amount. Remember: quality fabric with good weaving cannot be cheap!

How to wear?

Many mothers, when they first encounter slings, are at a loss. How to wear a sling? It depends on which carrying model you prefer. How to tie a sling scarf? For the most common fetal position, in which the baby is facing the mother in an upright position, the following instructions should be followed:

• The middle of the sling is drawn to the lower back, and its ends are brought forward.
• Each end is thrown over the shoulder in such a way that a cross is obtained in front.
• The baby is fixed in the resulting "cocoon" with enough space for him and the tightness of the scarf tension.
• If your "passenger" is still very small, it is recommended to wrap both panels around you and tie the baby again, securing a knot on his back.
• The scarf is wrapped in such a way as to give sufficient support for the baby's head and back. In this case, the butt should be below the knees, and the legs themselves should be in the “frog” position.

This winding option is suitable for children from 3-6 months. For the little ones, you can try another option: a sling with rings. How to wear a newborn in it? Here is a popular version of the cradle sling, which is attached over the mother's shoulder:

• How is the sling tied? The end of the scarf is passed through both rings.
• The top ring is wrapped in fabric, and the end of the scarf is pulled into the bottom ring.
• The resulting "hammock" is fixed on the parent's shoulder so that the child has enough space.
• The baby is placed in a sling, head on shoulder without rings. It is important that the head is not in the scarf itself, but on the side, slightly above the rest of the body. So the position will be the most comfortable for the baby.
• The fabric should tightly wrap around the head and back of the baby so that he feels comfortable. The butt should sag a little, and the legs should be in an elevated position.
• With the help of rings, the level of the child's position and how tightly he is pressed against mom or dad are regulated. It is important to find the golden mean here, which is achieved only after several training attempts. Do not be afraid to try, and soon you will be able to put on a sling as quickly and easily as experienced slingomams. And the question of how to wear a newborn in a sling with rings will disappear by itself.

All slingomams, future and present, are faced with the problem of choosing a sling for a newborn. There is an unimaginable amount of slings, information and reviews - too. After reading thematic posts, only questions remain in my head instead of clarity: a scarf or May? With silk or linen? Short or long? 6 or 5? Didymos or Elleville?
Of course, it is very difficult make choices when to navigatefor the birth season, its exemplary weight, temperature of the habitat, family budget, physical condition of the parent, the purpose of the sling, mom's wardrobe, just a desire and a favorite color.
Our hypermarket team slings babysling.ru tried to systematize the available information, which resulted in writing a review article on the topic: “Choice withlinga for a newborn.
General rules for choosing the "first" sling:

1. Purpose of purchase
Before you drown in a sea of ​​information and pictures, you should determine for yourself why you need a carrier. At least for a start. Start from the current problem or situation.
Because it’s impossible to pick up one sling, “so that it’s comfortable on the plane, and go to the beach in hot Egypt, and pick berries in the country, and it’s not cold to get to the clinic in winter,” it’s impossible to pick up. Moreover, “the most inexpensive, and so that it looks modern, and the husband could wear it. The child is 1.5 months old. We were advised some linen. What do you say??? ”Hands drop, words disappear.
Do not try to buy the only sling for all occasions and for all future children. Decide: why do you need it now and in the first place!
Traveling with a baby, going to work / errands, taking an older child to kindergarten / developmental activities, satisfying an increased need for suckling at the breast, carrying belly to stomach during evening colic, doing many hours of household chores - this is one thing.
Running to the store, to the clinic, warming up lunch, rocking the child to sleep, walking to the car or the beach is another thing.
If a balanced decision does not come to mind, you want both, feel free to rent a sling and try, try, try! 2. Type of carrying

To make the right choice between a ring sling (cc), a scarf sling (scarf), a mai sling (mai), an ergonomic backpack or (hopefully not) a baby carrier for your baby, you need to have a general understanding of all types of carriers and the physiology of newborns. You can get this knowledge from articles slingomamy.livejournal.com/4955239.html and slingokonsultant.ru/articles/sling/babywearingnewborn.php (must read!!!)

Our little summary:

We advise you to stop your choice on: a scarf, ssk and may-sling made of scarf fabric (sharfomai).

Woven sling scarf

Woven sling scarf - optimal carrier for newborns and babies, well suited for long walks. The scarf evenly distributes the load on the shoulders and lower back of the parent, it is always possible to breastfeed and lull the baby.
Due to the special weaving of threads (double diagonal weaving), when the fabric does not stretch along or across, but diagonally, in scarves, the possibility of tight attraction of the newborn to the parent, thorough adjustment of the sling and support of all parts of the spine and neck of the child are best provided.
In a scarf, you can wear a child in horizontal and vertical positions.
Slings-scarves come in several sizes depending on their length.
For a slender and short mother (up to size 44), you can take size 5 (length 4.2). But for additional lumbar support, it is better to take a 4.7 meter sling (6-ku), then it will be possible to bring the ends of the sling forward.
For mom 44-48 fit size 6 (4.7 meters).
For mom from size 50 - 7 (5.2 meters).

Sling with rings

Sling with rings will also serve as a great help to you. Due to the speed of dressing, it is convenient to use it for short runs (from the car to the house, from the house to the beach, for example), to do household chores. A sling with rings is also good because you can easily put the baby away with the carrier without waking him up by unwinding.

Your choice of ssk (sling with rings) should be stopped on the option of scarf fabric, without compacted sides, with rings of large diameter and an unsewn tail. So you will have a better chance of learning how to attract the newborn well, adjust the fabric in the rings and straighten it.
The ssk can be worn in a horizontal and vertical position.
When buying a good (scarf fabric, without sides and with an open tail) sling with rings, sizing for moms with clothing sizes from 42 to 48 is largely a matter of personal preference of the wearer: whether you like a longer or shorter tail in cc. For mothers with larger sizes of clothes, it is better to choose a larger size for yourself. You should also pay attention to the fact that the length of standard M-s from different manufacturers can vary quite a lot, which means that if possible, it is better to try on a sling before making a final purchase decision.

Sharfomai (mai-sling made of scarf fabric)

scarfomaiattracts by the speed of winding and a more modern look. May-sling is better to have not as a first carrier, but in addition to a scarf or a sling with rings. May-sling can be worn with a baby in the "quick walk to the store" mode, and the full and longer use of May should be started from 4 months.
May-sling for a baby is also worth buying from scarf fabric, with wide straps and with the possibility of good adjustment in width and height of the back. In a scarf, it is better to learn to wear it in an upright position. The horizontal position of the “cradle” with babies is best used by experienced sling mothers who can straighten excess may-sling fabric and ensure even distribution of the load on the baby’s back.
3. Budget

Make a budget for buying a baby sling. And choose from the highest price segment for you. Your comfort and the formation of winding skills depend on the quality of the sling and its composition. And high-quality mercerized cotton carriers, as a rule, cost more than Vologda linen, but they will not leave you indifferent and will not seem rude or unyielding.
4. Style

Choose your favorite color or pattern based on your wardrobe or just your preferences. A baby in a carrier will involuntarily attract the views of others. You will be pleased if the sling does not look like just a piece of fabric, but a stylish accessory that emphasizes the color of your eyes or creates the integrity of your image.

5. Composition

But perhaps the most important criterion in choosing a sling for a newborn is what it is made of. The composition of a scarf, scarf or sling with rings determines their lightness, breathability, plasticity and huggability.
The existence of slings from different materials and mixed composition is due to the desire to create carriers for different needs and parameters of a parent-child pair. It is thanks to the different composition and weaving that you can choose a sling for a fluffy newborn and a heavy baby runner, for hot summers and harsh winters, for a weak mother's back and hardy father's shoulders, for back windings or rebozos.
Every sophisticated sling mom has a list of silk-cashmere-bamboo slings that she would buy for the birth of her next baby.
But, if you are just planning to become a sling, our team recommends buying the first 100% cotton sling in medium thickness to fill your hand, learn how to wind and experience joy from the first days of wearing. Indeed, often very thin and plastic scarves cannot cope with winding errors, they begin to crawl and cease to properly fix the position of the child.
But after 2 months of practice, training and daily baby wear, while your baby is still a baby, you should definitely try dessert in the form of silk and bamboo scarves.

Let's take a closer look at slings made of different materials suitable for newborns and babies:

100% cotton slings- a compromise between the tenderness of silk scarves and the holding, non-slipping of thick linens. Cotton slings offer plasticity, breathability and the possibility of good adjustment on the one hand, and the stability of even not very careful winding, on the other.

Manufacturers: Ellevill, Didymos, Neobulle, Nati, Girasol, Vatanai, Kokadi, Oscha, Diva Milano, etc.
Example: Vatanai Reims

Slings with silk in the composition are a plastic "oily" canvas. For the most part, slings with silk are thin, so they are well suited for summer babies, for hot climates or trips to the sea. They are very pliable in winding and hugging.
Manufacturers: Didymos, Ellevill, Heartiness, Nati, etc.
Example: Elleville Caelum He

Slings with silk and cashmere- a dream for kinesthetics. An inexpressible feeling of tenderness, warmth and comfort :) Among sling appraisers, they are considered the most desirable acquisition for babies. The unique composition allows the sling to "cool" in the heat and "warm" in the cool.

Manufacturers: Didymos, Heartiness, etc.

Example: Didymos Ellipsen Silk Cashmere

Slings with silk and woolhave the softness and suppleness of silk scarves and a warming effect.
Manufacturers: Didymos and others.
Example:Didymos Indio Eisblau mit seide und wolle

Slings with cashmerewell suited for cool evenings and for imperfect thermoregulation of babies. Warm, but not prickly, thin and gentle to wear.
Manufacturers: Didymos, Nati and others.
Example: Didymos Indio Cashmere Graphite

Slings with bamboo- silky, flowing, superbly draped. Thin and not hot, good for the summer.
Manufacturers: Ellevill, LennyLamb, Nati
Example: Elleville Paisley Grasshopper

Bamboolen slingssoft and gentle, with excellent support and airflow. Great for heavy kids.
Manufacturers: Elleville and others
Example:Elleville Paisley Linen Linger Sling Scarf

6. Quantity Although everyone is looking for a sling for a newborn, it would be more correct to look for slings. At least two pieces. Here are a few combinations in which two slings are inseparable from each other and act as indispensable helpers for mom:

1. One for home, one for outdoor.
Coming home from the metro / minibus / bus / car, clinic or guests, it is so nice to lull a child in a “home” scarf, ssk or scarf, smelling of comfort and tranquility. And you won’t wrap a naked baby in a soiled street sling.
2. One scarf, another sling with rings.
For different tasks - different slings.
For tiring walks around the city, trips by public transport, hiking and traveling, a scarf is ideal. Quickly change the position in the sling from vertical to horizontal, put the baby to bed, make purchases in the nearest store - for this it is better to use a sling with rings.
3. For dad and mom.
One type of sling is bright and elegant for mom, the other is discreet and versatile for dad.
You can also mention the situations of the birth of twins, “one sling is washed off - dries, the other is worn”, “a separate sling for each mother's outfit”, but we will not do this. And so everything is clear :)
Using a similar algorithm, your own sense of taste and the flow of information from the sling consultant, the slingomam community, the community of scarf sling lovers, didi_everyone and other sling communities and sites, you can choose the first sling to make life easier, freedom of movement and closeness with the baby.

Here is a small example-illustration of how the algorithm we proposed can be used:

1. Purpose: I need a sling to take my older child to developmental activities, walk with both children daily + I want to establish breastfeeding and feed on demand.

2. Type of sling and size: Because I will have to walk long and often, and right from birth, so I will take a sling scarf.
I am a size 44, so I choose a 6-ku (4.7 meters).
3. Budget: 4000 - 4500 rubles.
4. Style:I want something in the color of the sea wave under the breastfeeding dress and summer raincoat.
5. Composition : No experience, I'll start with 100% cotton.
6. Quantity: I only have money for a scarf, I'll rent it.
Outcome: Didymos Wellen Acqua

Small F.A.Q. baby slings:

1 . But what is still better for a newborn: a sling with rings or a sling scarf?

The question is incorrect, because these carriers cannot be compared in this way. These are equally useful devices for different situations and conditions.
If you are still in doubt, then buy a woven sling scarf. This is a carrier that has no drawbacks (and the fear of windings and the length of the fabric is the first impression (exaggerated besides), which passes very quickly, it is worth watching video master classes, attending a sling meeting or visiting a sling showroom).

2. Is it possible to carry a baby in an ergonomic backpack with a special insert for newborns?

Many manufacturers do offer to buy special inserts in ergo backpacks or put a diaper inside to reduce the volume of the carrier so that the newborn does not fall out of there and for a tighter attraction.
In fact, this is not an option at all. Firstly, this insert does not add more huggability to the backpack, but simply flattens the child closer to the mother. The ergo backpack still has excessive attraction in the shoulder area (in the places where the straps are attached), but the upper and lower parts of the child's spine remain poorly attracted without the possibility of adjustment and tension. In addition, the baby with this insert is very hot.
We recommend using carrier bags from the age of 6-7 months.A knitted sling scarf is very good for learning the basics of sling wearing: different windings, straightening the fabric, tying knots, and so on. But a knitted scarf is a sling for a very short time (for a couple of months, up to about 6 kg), because when a child reaches a certain weight, it becomes difficult to wear it (knitted fabric stretches a lot under weight). In addition, it is hotter in a knitted scarf than in a woven cotton one. Ideally, buy knitwear during pregnancy, train your husband and relatives on it, and with the birth of a child, purchase a woven sling scarf.

4. The sling scarf scares me, it is so long and so difficult to wrap. I will never master. What should I do?
The complexity of the scarf is greatly exaggerated. For a newborn, you will need to master one or two simple windings. This can be done through video tutorials, at a sling meeting or in a sling showroom. If you are still afraid of not coping and doing something wrong, then you can always invite a sling consultant to your home, who will explain to you the basics of baby wearing and teach you how to wind the sling and adjust it correctly.

5. Can I wear in a sling "facing the world"?

The answer to this question is well stated in the article mama.tomsk.ru/babywearing/carriers/sling10/ on the mama.tomsk portal. In short, the world-facing position of the baby deprives the sling of its benefits of good support and comfort, and the baby can be adversely affected by the abundance of impressions and visual information.

6. Can twins be carried in a sling? How many slings do you need for this?
Need! You can wear twins in slings in combination: one parent - one child. Then you need two slings: ss or scarves.
If a mother plans to carry two children on herself at the same time, then you can learn how to wind two children in one scarf (together in the position on the stomach or one on the stomach, one behind the back) or buy 2 slings-scarves: one for the back winding, one for the position front.

7. How long can I wear a newborn in a sling?
The duration of babywearing for newborn babies depends on the needs of mother and child.
Some children need long-term babywearing, while others want to quickly change position and look around. But in general, newborns are worn in a sling as much as in their arms.
The main rule for wearing baby slings is that an awake baby needs to be taken out of the sling to warm up, exercise and change position approximately every hour. With a sleeping baby, you can do these manipulations after waking up.

8. Can I wear a newborn in a sling in winter?
It is possible and necessary! A couple of additional purchases will be required for a comfortable winter wearing of a baby sling: namely, a special insert in a mother’s jacket or a sling jacket that will warm mother and baby in a sling. And a sling overall for the period of frost with elongated legs for ease of wearing.