About love has been written many times and said. But still she remains one of the greatest mysteries of humanity, and it is not easy to figure it out. It is difficult to understand why one women are lucky in his personal life, while others, despite their wonderful qualities and beauty, remain alone. Of course, it is impossible to give one answer for everyone, but if you know how most often the strong floor falls in love, through what stages it passes, there is a chance to understand how to react correctly and what to count at a certain point in time.

How men fall in love with points

• First, they pay attention to external data. They are attracted what a woman looks like. At the same time, it is very important to remember, each of them likes one of them: someone is a slight girl with a little breast, and someone is a woman with appetizing forms, long or short hair, wide thighs or their absence, etc. There are no identical standards of beauty. None of them can explain that he attracted him. The concept of beauty is formed in men subconsciously, and not created with the help of the fashion world. Of course, this should not be a call to failure to follow yourself. Clean and well-groomed hair, good shoes, neat nails, smell of clean body and clothes that gives charm, to feel attractive and cause interest from the opposite sex. But also a complexity because of some features of appearance is definitely not worth it. If the type of woman attracted his attention, he will not pay attention to the fact that she was usually embarrassed in himself. True, while he looks short before take the next step.

• Then he will begin to provide small signs of attention to understand whether he should count on something. It does not even look like real courtship: "random" meetings, minor compliments or desire to be there, where and she. And if he understands that he was interested in the girl, then he passes to another stage. The task of the lady to appreciate whether he is interested in her.
• Next, a man will try to enlist her consent to the meeting. But for this, he must be exactly sure that it is noticed and to him experience, at least interest. Otherwise, it will only come true if he is very in love.
• After he will try to demonstrate all his positive qualities and hit the chosen. He needs to conquer it. And for this, he will not shake in gifts, walks in the moon, poems or joint visits to entertainment establishments. The main feelings for him are passion and the desire to show themselves in all its glory to earn admiration. Unlike men, girls are already beginning to experience more serious feelings, allowing themselves to believe that it is all a sign of future serious relationship.
• As soon as he understands that he conquered the chief, he will feel safe, because it will be completely sure that she will not quit it. At this point, he will demonstrate everything to prove as much as she was not mistaken in him and that she did not find it better.
• And only after that, satisfying his passion, he wonders, and whether to continue the relationship or he is not ready for them yet. At the moment, he will appreciate how much his lady suits him, whether she, with whom he can spend his whole life, whether he wants children from her, and whether she does his happy. A man will remember all the quarrels, situations and moments that a woman could forget for a long time. Passion retreats, and he begins to think more rationally, appreciating everything that happens in the long run. His human qualities and the fact that his chosen is capable of giveing \u200b\u200bhim.
• If the representative of the strong sex is answered on all questions, it means that he is really in love. It suits him. Even when, according to someone, his girl is far from ideal, he considers it quite the opposite and it is impossible to convince him, he will give will feelings and will allow himself to plunge into them with his head. In the case of negative answers, it will be very soon for the search for another, at best, borrowing, to find a more or less believable reason why you need to part.

We disassemble how men fall in love

To explain the process of love of any person in detail is impossible. He is too personal and based on the spiritual qualities of the one who is experiencing it. And finding men similar to each other, pre-doomed for failure. Therefore, only a few stages can be distinguished here, describing in general terms, as it happens in most situations. But this is enough to learn about the opposite field something not only new, but also important. After all, knowing when they experience serious feelings, you can adjust our own behavior in time and do what will finally conquer his heart or with the least loss to get out of relationships that do not lead anywhere.

If you read or heard the results of the census of the population, most likely, were surprised by the fact that there are much more women in the country, who consider themselves married than married men. But all by the fact that even a joint accommodation, a beautifully called "civilian" marriage does not mean that the partner considers himself a non-free and having a wife, which should be provided. For many, this is a convenient way to enjoy home comfort, while at the same time avoiding unnecessary obligations. It pleases only that not all men are also frivolous about those who confessed themselves in love and who decided to live together.

But still, to protect yourself and avoid problems in the future, you need to carefully examine how you deal with whom. His aspirations, the worldview, principles, than he lives, all the stages that he passes before will understand what is really experiencing to the girl. That is how to protect the beauties from bitter disappointments and hasty choice.

Personal life is not a draft that you can rewrite. And those who do not want to regret the mistakes made, seek not to just explore the available information, but also to apply it in practice, turning attention to the behavior of representatives of the strong sex to make sure that they are needed that they are experiencing.

Before falling in love, a man is experiencing several stages that are fundamentally different from what women feel. The strong floor first recognizes a girl who interests him and only then allows himself to make a decision: to give will feelings or not. As not surprising, but they are able to keep their emotions with themselves, skillfully controlling them, although it's no secret that men are less emotional than ladies.

Unlike the beautiful half of humanity, they do not rush into the ohwow with their heads. It is difficult to explain it, without deepening in the debris of psychology, but if you formulate it in a simple language, you can state: the psyche is so arranged. And they can not do anything here.

Women will subconsciously see in each partner of a potential husband, and the heavy floor is not in love immediately, but through a certain period of time, or this does not occur at all, even if he has already worked for the one who managed to interest him for a long time. There are, of course, exceptions, such as love at first glance. But exceptions usually confirm the rules.

After all, often girls write that they have already believed that they met the one who will make them happy, and instead, young people have noticed in surprise that it was not so worse, they were offered to part, not explaining anything. Such behavior is able to not just shock and cause injury, but also affect self-esteem and, as a result, further personal life.

A man in love is ready to minimize the mountains, just to be close to the one who managed to conquer his heart. But if it is not so, you should not waste time, it is better to try to immediately forget the one who dreamed of encouraging and then quit. To stop being prey, try changing the process of love to which he is subconsciously used.


The only thing a woman can make in this situation is not to hurry the events and more soberly and coolly treat the one who has shown interest to it, do not build air locks, do not prepare for the proposal of the hand and heart in advance. Do not attempt to immediately surround care, but to withstand the pause, let him show what he is for a person. And only then make a decision, whether to put it in his heart. It protects from extra stress, experiences that collapsed hopes and the appearance of a convenient, but very insidious idea that all men are very bad people. As they say: "Who is warned, he is armed."