Greetings, my dear readers. Today I will talk about what kind of relationships in the family, how spouses interact with each other. Relationship between partners is one of the main things in family life. Depending on which which role plays how much the spouse is close and honest with each other depends on their overall happy future.

New stage in life

Family is a serious step forward for a woman and a man. Just to meet is far from the same thing that live together, to lead a family life, to distribute the budget, the emergence of children and much more.

Between the spouses can develop various options for relationships. The distribution of the primacy, who takes a final decision, who earns, and who are doing household chores. All these questions will be better to discuss on the shore. Of course, and in the process you can solve any question. The main thing is to be able to negotiate.

It happens that in the process of family life, the spouses can change roles. There is nothing terrible in this. Perhaps for this stage it will be better. Sometimes a woman takes a male family in the family and leads everyone forward. There is nothing bad in what is happening.

Life is unpredictable and throws all new tests on our century. It is impossible to be ready for everything. Even the most assembled person is not always possible to predict what will happen next. That is why it is important that the husband and wife know how to hear each other and were ready to help and substitute their shoulder. When the spouses act a single front, then they are not afraid of any difficulties.

Partners

One of the options for family interaction is partnerships. The psychology of such tactics is the equality of both spouses. And the husband and wife are equal and equivalent in everything. Both have a work that is important and no option that the profession of one is more serious and valuable.

And the husband and wife are doing homemade. Each in the ability, as they say. Similarly, with the child. Both parents take an active part in the education of children.

When an important decision is made in such a family, both partners sit at the negotiating table and decide the question in such a way that the outcome to suit both. Maybe the decision is made using a coin, the question is not in this. The main thing is equality. Full for both spouses. They are like business partners who go close to each other.

There is no question in such a family - who is the main one. No disassembly on the topic: Why do you take such important solutions without me. But one day one of the partners may want more power, the dragging of the blanket on itself, quarrels and scandals begin. To avoid this, you need to talk. If some solution is made difficult, postpone it. Give yourself and your partner time to think.

An optional will happen with a tug. But anything is possible. Therefore, be prepared, talk about what you will do if such a story happens in your family. Prepare in advance.

Tractor and trailer

In my opinion, the most common relationship is a tractor and trailer. When one of the partners leads, and the second follows him. It's not a fact that a man will be a tractor. I met a lot of couples in which just a woman drags her faithful, directs him, takes all important decisions, is engaged in the budget and so on.

Sometimes such relationships may look like a major husband, but in fact a wife, like a gray cardinal. She still takes important decisions. She tells the spouse what to do in a particular situation. The game can be conducted both in the open and the scenes.

In such respects it is difficult to figure out who is actually important. A woman will always be able to make a man thinks he is the main one. Husbands are rarely engaged in similar. They do not greatly welcome these games.

These relationships allow the second person with ease of shifting responsibility on the second and live without thinking. Just go there where you are sent. But it happens that the host is tired, breaks, there is some crisis. And here is a question - can the second spouse take on the role of a tractor?

If not can, then married happiness under threat. After all, when both are just trailers, they will stand still and can not move anywhere. But if the second spouse can take on the role of the main thing, then the relationship will be fixed and only stronger. After all, the help of the crisis is the most precious. It is easy to help when and so everything is fine.

Parent and child

Another option for the development of the family scenario can be the role of the parent and child. When an adult man is looking for a younger girl to become her father, a mentor, a mentor. Or, on the contrary, when a woman is looking for a son, about which she will take care of, care and in every possible way to raise.

In such behavior there is nothing wrong. If there is a need, then why not. The main thing is that this arranges both spouses. When they are both satisfied with their marital status - then there will be prosperity and happiness.
With the advent of this child, the situation can change greatly. Anyone who has experienced the role of a child can grow up, change its globility and become more responsible and serious. The child changes much in the life of people. Including a married role.

In such respects there is something more than just married love. Since one partner plays the role of a parent, the relationship has a shade of deceic or maternal care. The psychology of such behavior is desire to be either a parent or child. How it happens to say it hard. For more depth analysis, it is necessary to do a certain work with a specialist.

If both spouse are happy, it does not matter what role they play. Parent, partner, child, trailer or tractor. When husband and wife know how to negotiate, hear each other, talk about their problems - They can overcome everything in their path.

Friends-spouses

It also happens that relations grow from friendship. People have long known each other, be friends, but at one fine moment there is a transformation of relationships. And they understand that there is something more between them than just friendship.
Such relationships have both many advantages and minuses. And some things have both polarity. Partners have known each other for a long time, they are aware of the past relations of their friend, situations that showed a person in his true appearance could occur between them. Much takes place between. And how to be further not completely clear.

Is it possible to use what you know about your friend when you are in a relationship? Or is it worth it to start with a blank sheet? What to do with friendly offensions? New status is new obligations and responsibility.

The border between the friendship in a man and a woman and a love tie is so blurred and uncertain that partners themselves do not notice how their attitude to each other changes. One look is sometimes enough to understand what is happening something more intimate and amourous.

Relationships are different, all people have their own characteristics. Even when the script seems the same, the relationship still possess their shades. Love each other, and everything else will attach. Nossrat Phezeskian has excellent work called "Training family relationships. 33 and 1 forms of partnership ". You may find some interesting thoughts there for yourself.

Have a nice day!