Instruction
Take a small pause. For example, for 3-4 weeks. Clear all contacts with the ex-wife. Do not communicate with her even by phone. During this time, try to change for the better. Get out sports, start attending additional courses or find a new job. It will not be superfluous to update the wardrobe and change the haircut. The former spouse should see you from the new side.
Start analyzing all the errors you made during your communication. Surely the spouse informed you for what reason she leaves. If the problem is in you, then try to change. For example, if the former wife accused you of inertia and laziness, become more active. Of course, it is quite difficult to change yourself in a short period of time, so to achieve the result you can refer to a psychologist.
If the spouse left because of feelings to another man, get better than he. Try to prove to her that you are a more worthy candidate. After all, once she was your second half, it means that you were attractive to her. Try again to cause interest in the spouse.
When communicating with a former second half, do not suit the quarrels and scandals. You must communicate calmly. Even if she provokes you to conflict, leave him. Translate the conversation to another topic.
Make a former spouse pleasant surprises. It can be a bouquet of flowers, a nice gift or just a good evening. Decide her small problems and do not ask for nothing. Translate your relationship to another channel. Prove to her that you have no complaints and you are ready to communicate with her as a friend. After a month of calm communication, you can talk to her about your relationship. Create situations as often as possible, which will remind her of pleasant minutes spent with you. After all, in your life there was a lot of good. And if the woman will remember regular about it, then soon she will want to return the relationship.
Prove to her that you love her. To do this, you need to regularly inform her about your feelings, make compromises and in no case swear with her. As they say, water stone sharpens not by force, but the frequency of impact. And your task to be always there is to constantly prove your feelings and wait for the former spouse back.
Divorce is a heavy test for two people who have once loved each other. A life after it is not always becoming easier, especially if the spouse understands that he does not want to let go wife.
Instruction
Take a solid solution. After tree People feel empty, and only therefore often seek to return their former relations. Think carefully, whether you need a relationship with a woman who crashed and reached the marriage process. Only after Solid solutions are proceeding.
Analyze the situation that led to the divorce. Remember your collaborative life in which there were a lot of mistakes. Think about what you bring you to tree. Do not look for afterdnought a drop, make it deeper and understand the reasons for displeasure to each other.
Adjust contact with the former spouse. Start communication, it is advisable to do it gradually, without dumping the head of the former wife. Do not be persistent, just remind of your existence, pushing into talk about the wonderful moments of living together. Support it in any situation, help if it is required. Time changes the relationship of people, and perhaps your wife will understand what made a mistake.
Correct old missions. Exactly knowing that the spouse annoyed in you, get rid of it. From any habit you can refuse, any trait of character, if not fixed, then at least smooth. Seeing big changes, your spouse will appreciate it.
Admit your guilt. In no case do not throw wine for a divorce on wife. On the contrary, it is better to exaggerate its share, but not to refuse to recognize participation in the crash of marriage.
