Love once and for life - rather a beautiful exception to the harsh rules of polygamy of this life. And the marriage for life is often with painful periods of quarrels, jealousy, change and often on the verge of divorce.

It often happens that a man, heading his mistress, after a while leaves the family to her, marries and lives happily before the end of life with a bunch of kids. But it happens only in cases where a woman has enough wisdom in order to understand how to bind a married man to him. And in most cases, exactly the game on the main instincts is extremely important. After all, not all girls are able to properly satisfy the guy physically.

From this article you will learn how to become a good mistress for a married man so that he does not go anywhere from you.

Before dealing with how you need to act, it is worth understanding what the representative of the strong sex wants and why he goes from the spouse to the left.

The main reasons for treason such are:

• The problems in the family are the lack of sex, comfort, the impossibility of talking about anything with a companion of life. In such a situation, any sexual desire, love and desire to return home after work disappears.
• Polygamy representative of the opposite sex. Simply put - a tendency to treason. She is either there or not. The business is in the presence of a gene that is responsible for risk, as well as how pronounced he has a person.
• An ugly wife who does not cause physical desire. In this case, even if everything is fine in the family, there is no quarrel, misunderstanding, the husband will still go to look like a caress in the other, because his simply aged and shed apart.
• Boredom. It seems to be good: and the wife is not hysterical, and prepares delicious, and in the bed of the goddess, but something is missing. It is very unpleasant to meet a married man for the girl in this case - he is with her only for changing the situation, some fun and risk. If you see that the situation is this - just do not contact or immediately throw when they understood because your nerves are more expensive.

When you understand that the lover in your arms throws, it's time to decide how to act to become an ideal mistress for him. It is clear that the representative of a strong sex is needed magnificent sex, but what else to give him? Depends on the situation.

How to become the best

In a situation where a polygamen person or looking for entertainment, the best way will have a week and the first to quit it, and even abandon such dubious joy at all. If you understand that a person is going to you, because at home he is bad and there are no longer waiting, then the task is how much such a person is very simple for a smart and competent girl.

Moral aspect

The first thing you need to do is to give him pleasure not physical, but moral, that is, to arrange so that it was nice to come to your house.

For this you need:

1. Keep the place where you meet clean and warm. It doesn't matter, this is your apartment or temporary you take off. Come half an hour before the meeting, spread the candles, cover the bed with a beautiful bedspread, remove in the bathroom and put a shower gel with a tasty smell. It seems to be trifles, but they work fine, creating a comfort and the feeling that you are pleasant and good. If your apartment is nothing easier than keeping it in exemplary cleanliness, spray your spirits and thus on the subconscious level to cause a steady association that where you are - there is good and cozy.
2. Prepare. Even if the guy can afford a daily dinner in an expensive restaurant, there is nothing better than a pie or pasta, cooked by your hands. The path to the heart of a man lies through the stomach, and who will feed tastier - he will be ahead. You do not want him to take you a sharp chef or worse than my wife. Therefore, even if you are not so good in cooking - look in the Internet some simple recipe for soup or satisfying lettuce, practice before cooking for your beloved - and the heart will be with your feet.
3. Be beautiful. Even if you have long not 20 and the figure is not so slight and cellulite, and wrinkles - you can either correct, or cover, or very beautifully serve. If your beloved is trained in the hall, and you have extra weight - ask you to walk with him and teach you how to deal with it in order to become slim. Such an offer is very flattered by male pride, besides, you will see more often. And if there are no special problems with the figure, the masks, beautiful makeup, gorgeous dresses and high-heeled shoes have not been canceled - he should want to show you the world.
4. No hysteria. Thinking scandals, winding themselves, irritation, refusal of sex are common mistakes of wives who are forever beaten a desire from a strong sex. Lovers of married should not behave in this way. In order to understand how to communicate and meet with a married man, look at the speeches of psychologists on the Internet. Especially if the doctor is a strong sex, he is well and clearly tell you what line behavior is to avoid in order to be ideal in such relationships.
5. Share your hobbies or at least just listen to conversations. It is very important that a person coming to you receive not only physical, but also psychological attention. So the level of comfort, and therefore, the attachment will be several times higher.

Now, when you understood the principles of the psychological comfort of a partner, dealt with how to communicate with the lover at the human level, it is worth thinking about how to deal with him in bed, in other words - how to drive crazy so that he forgot Everything except you.

Sexy aspect

In order to find out what qualities of an ideal mistress prefers your second half just ask. Yes, most of the sexual problems in the pair occurs due to misunderstanding, inexpensiveness and lack of communication and conversations for intimate topics.

Psychologists say that at a more conscious age, the sexual relationship is harder.

Each has already formed habits and preferences in bed, in addition, people after 30 are less prone to experiments and they may have unresolved fears, complexes, conflicts with them. But this can be paid for good if you just talk about who wants what you do not like or categorically unpleasant. After that, it is worth discussing the possibility of a compromise and try the fact that none of you have not yet done.

But if you for some reason postponed the conversation or he went smoothly and you didn't know anything new for myself - there are no special wishes or taboo, then here are some universal advice on how to satisfy the lover and make them again and again want to get closeness with you.

• No failures. Only comic and only to wake up even more desire and get better fire. The mistress in the beginning of the relationship is needed not because of conversations or borscht, but because of passion, sex, pleasure. Therefore, do not refuse Never. During sex, endorphins are distinguished, which remove pain. If there is no desire, make you excrete you. Petting, oral caresses or even a simple massage - a game that is pleasant to play and half, and you.
• Be chose and agree on experiments if they are not a strict taboo for you. Believe me, no one has died from oral sex or striptease, and see the happy eyes of a loved one - invaluable.
• Do not turn the proximity to the goods. The phrase by type "Buy a fur coat, you will get a blowjob" completely kills all the desire, romance and passion. You do not prostitute - surrender for something. Only if both of both will be well together if you will equally want a physical and moral merge, the relationship will be beautiful, and sex is divine. If a man does not satisfy you or tritely unpleasant to you to be in bed - do not suffer and throw.

We hope you will be helped by tips on how to become a good mistress. And remember: patience and work will be pulled out.